07 February 2008

not good.

I'm thinking of leaving b.

13 comments:

JJ said...

oh no...it sounds like things remain very strained for you all. please know i am praying for you all!

squarepeg said...

Call me - honestly - any time.

jp said...

I am so sorry to read that you are at this place. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

orodemniades said...

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Have you spoken to b about this yet, or will you wait til he gets home? Is there any chance you can take a break with friends or family?

Resplendentquetzal said...

Please evaluate whether it is actaully b, or the things that make b a stressful person. work, responsibilites, committments, etc.
Some of those can be changed, and if he knows you are serious, perhaps there is an alternative to work things out.
Also, pregnancy/TTC/Infertility/etc. are such emotional times that you have to be aware and watchful so as not to make too emotional of a decision with raging hormones.

I know, it sounds awful as I type, but it is the awful truth of the thing. I agree with orodemniades though about taking a break, sometimes it does help. Even a hotel room break...

Becky said...

Uh. Oh. Oh, no. I'm sorry, duder. Anything I can do?

(Trust me when I say that I do feel your pain).

*hugs*

Diana said...

Oh please don't mean this. I hope he can find a way to reduce his hours, I would hope that would make a difference. It sounds like you both are going through so much and have been going through so much.

Portia P said...

Are you sure? Do you really mean that?

You've been through so much and are just starting to get to the even better bit! Can you not just stay with friends/family for some tlc and to get your head together.

It won't always be like this. It's a point in time and his work WILL calm down.

I'm thinking of you and here if you need anything - more assvice than anything, I suppose, being so far away.

Fertilize Me said...

ACK- Oh my dear Friend - I am so sorry

Trish said...

Oh honey.. I really hope you guys can work it out. Really really hope you can work it out.

:(


Definitely thinking of and praying for you guys..

laurid said...

I've been following you for a little while from the T-TTC board, and I just want to say 1) I'm so happy for you that your pregnancy is going well, and 2) I'm so sorry for the stress you are under. Hang in there. Allow yourself time to get clear on things an talk to b. I wish you peace!

Cindy Nguyen said...

I'm sorry.

You are in my thoughts.

Rebecca said...

I am hoping for some clarity for you in this confusing time of your life. Hopefully things will become clear and you can see what you both truly want out of life - hopefully it's the same thing and you can get there using the same road. Thinking of you...